Love is the only way

Yesterday morning we pushed through with more conversation about how to be with one another. I talked about a need for quid pro quo... He wants me to be more tolerant of his behavior. I want him to be more loving, present and real with me. I want him to treat me with courtly gallantry. It went ok and we had a lovely day together. It occurred to me that I can keep a list of his positive, loving interactions with me. I think that will help keep me in the loving/kindness awareness mode. Presently he is playing very beautiful choral music. A lovely awakening for a Sunday Morning.